How to Raise a Citizen Kid: Encourage Philanthropy
As parents, we start by taking care of our child’s basic needs: Are they fed and clothed? Is there a roof over their head? These questions are pretty straightforward but as our kids get older, we start facing tougher parenting dilemmas. How do we raise children who are good people? How do we teach them to help others? How do we inspire them to make the world a better place? If only they came with an instruction manual. We are asking our children to imagine what their lives would be like in other circumstances, to appreciate the cards they’ve been dealt, and reach out a helping hand to others who don’t share the same privilege. But the act of giving doesn’t just benefit the people on the receiving end. At its core, philanthropy is a journey of self-discovery, as well as a growing awareness of the big picture. We encourage our children look inward to figure out what they care about and then we ask them to draw on the resources they have at their disposal to help solve a problem. For this reason, Bill and Melinda Gates have chosen to leave 90% of their wealth to their charitable foundation instead of passing it on to their three children. They want people to know that we believe in what we’re doing.”
When the interviewer asked if the couple would make their kids billionaires, Bill replied, “Nope. Here are a few ways you can raise a philanthropist in your home:
Choose a cause
Philanthropy is a great way for parents to share their values with their children while making a meaningful contribution to the world. They’ve probably participated in some type of general fundraiser like a walk-a-thon at school, but may not fully understand the impact of charitable giving. Do research
Help your child look into different organizations or charitable causes that are related to his or her interests. Suggest donating a portion of her allowance to non-profit organizations that help women in developing countries learn computer coding. When your child has a personal connection to the issue, it can make giving back an even more meaningful experience. You can also teach fiscal responsibility on a smaller scale by providing your child with a weekly allowance divided into the same three buckets for him or her to manage. Channel those seasonal moments into opportunities for giving. For example, ask each birthday party guest to bring a gently used toy or book and let the birthday boy or girl decide where the donations will go. Volunteer time
Philanthropy isn’t just about giving money – some of the most rewarding and impactful experiences come from volunteer work. Encourage your child to get involved by choosing a service project in the local community. Ready to get out there and make a difference? Here are some beautiful and thoughtful quotes about philanthropy to inspire you! Learn more about #CitizenKid and Milk Life.
